SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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If you pay attention to what is going on around you, you will have a lot longer than one second to do something about the danger.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Current NFL players must feel lucky that these men you speak of don't play football, seeing how Chris Johnson's 4.24 40yd from a 3-point stance was one of the fastest in recent yearstwentee said:Some men do the 40 yd dash in 4.0 seconds, guys, from a dead stop.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdPmexUhjWkgoundra said:also, 3 point stance AINT how they do dashes, homeboy. they do them from the sprinting blocks, on cindertracks, with cleated running shoes.that takes off several 1/10th seconds, ya know.
Again, if you pay attention to what is going on around you, you'll see the signs that something bad is about to happen. If you aren't paying attention, then you are an idiot.goundra said:bs, crap can 'jump off' a LOT faster than you lazy f**cks THINK it can. that's just your bs excuse for not doing the WORK required in becoming a black belt and a truly fast ccw draw with the pistol. MANY people have been standing in line, at bank, restaurant, sitting in a bar, etc, and suddenly had a weapon drawn or brawl start, etc.
BYAKUGANSharinganUser said:Again, if you pay attention to what is going on around you, you'll see the signs that something bad is about to happen. If you aren't paying attention, then you are an idiot.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.