SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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If you pay attention to what is going on around you, you will have a lot longer than one second to do something about the danger.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Current NFL players must feel lucky that these men you speak of don't play football, seeing how Chris Johnson's 4.24 40yd from a 3-point stance was one of the fastest in recent yearstwentee said:Some men do the 40 yd dash in 4.0 seconds, guys, from a dead stop.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdPmexUhjWkgoundra said:also, 3 point stance AINT how they do dashes, homeboy. they do them from the sprinting blocks, on cindertracks, with cleated running shoes.that takes off several 1/10th seconds, ya know.
Again, if you pay attention to what is going on around you, you'll see the signs that something bad is about to happen. If you aren't paying attention, then you are an idiot.goundra said:bs, crap can 'jump off' a LOT faster than you lazy f**cks THINK it can. that's just your bs excuse for not doing the WORK required in becoming a black belt and a truly fast ccw draw with the pistol. MANY people have been standing in line, at bank, restaurant, sitting in a bar, etc, and suddenly had a weapon drawn or brawl start, etc.
BYAKUGANSharinganUser said:Again, if you pay attention to what is going on around you, you'll see the signs that something bad is about to happen. If you aren't paying attention, then you are an idiot.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.