"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fit girls rule cuz they can pull off the spandex
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
As a cyclist who notices female cyclist in Spandex I wholeheartedly agree! 
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Deus ex Pianoforte said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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probably her age.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah... That....Michele said:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I donno... you get an eye full of "cranston" (as RT calls it) in the pic of her running.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
And there's something I just can't put a finger on about her carrying that pole around...
Fa...
fuh...
Phallic?
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I love it.Vulpine said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When I look at her she looks so sweet and innocent. What is it about some pretty chicks that make them look like that? But from personal experience I will say that pretty chicks who look sweet and innocent are far from it.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I don't know, that one of her upside down in mid air can give a guy a few ideas.Vulpine said:
PeterNorthisawesome
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Wow you're all chumps... very AFC... "OMG SHE's SO HOT" ya goodjob worshipping her before you even talk to her so... she's on gymnist. There's another 10,000 hot 18 year olds. GER OVER IT. I bet your moms are hot. :moon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PeterNorthisawesome
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So someone posts a random gymnist chick... and? So... there's no reason why u guys are making such a big deal about this ONE CHICK. Your all OBSESSED.... OMG SHE'S SO HOT! BLAH BLAH BLAH why don't you stop lookin at pictures and actually go for a real woman.seanchai said:
..Says the person who obviously watches lots off porn.PeterNorthisawesome said:So someone posts a random gymnist chick... and? So... there's no reason why u guys are making such a big deal about this ONE CHICK. Your all OBSESSED.... OMG SHE'S SO HOT! BLAH BLAH BLAH why don't you stop lookin at pictures and actually go for a real woman.
PeterNorthisawesome
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Learn to spell "of" before trying to make a point. How do you know I watch lots OFF porn? You stalking me you sick f*ck? If you are then... your gay. Congratz dunno what your doing on a internet board to get chicks.ramesses said:..Says the person who obviously watches lots off porn.
bigjohnson
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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Hahahaha.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.