"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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First timer for first dates , questions..?

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KnightRyder

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my second day of sarging I got two numbers

I've never done a first date....so I am unsure of some things

so this is my plan:
remind them how we met, ask them how they are doing and then
ask if they are doing anything this Fri/Sat around lunch time,
and Just ask them to goto applebees ?



I mean I've only met them
for 30 - 60 seconds, I mean doesn' it seem kinda *too formal* to ask
them to applebees so soon...Should I be going for action dates instead ?
Like pool or Dave & Busters or movies..



dear veterans, please advise a first timer to first dates
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well,

I read through some of your responses, I guess my question is basically

is it too formal to ask her to applebees so soon on a first date ?
 
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Applebees too formal??? No dude, its fine. In reality it doesn't matter where you go as long as you are having fun. She's gonna remember your attitude and conversation not the ceaser salad she order. The point is, make sure you guys have fun in whatever you do.
 
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