"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First timer for first dates , questions..?

KnightRyder

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my second day of sarging I got two numbers

I've never done a first date....so I am unsure of some things

so this is my plan:
remind them how we met, ask them how they are doing and then
ask if they are doing anything this Fri/Sat around lunch time,
and Just ask them to goto applebees ?



I mean I've only met them
for 30 - 60 seconds, I mean doesn' it seem kinda *too formal* to ask
them to applebees so soon...Should I be going for action dates instead ?
Like pool or Dave & Busters or movies..



dear veterans, please advise a first timer to first dates
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KnightRyder

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well,

I read through some of your responses, I guess my question is basically

is it too formal to ask her to applebees so soon on a first date ?
 

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Applebees too formal??? No dude, its fine. In reality it doesn't matter where you go as long as you are having fun. She's gonna remember your attitude and conversation not the ceaser salad she order. The point is, make sure you guys have fun in whatever you do.
 
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