"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First timer for first dates , questions..?

KnightRyder

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my second day of sarging I got two numbers

I've never done a first date....so I am unsure of some things

so this is my plan:
remind them how we met, ask them how they are doing and then
ask if they are doing anything this Fri/Sat around lunch time,
and Just ask them to goto applebees ?



I mean I've only met them
for 30 - 60 seconds, I mean doesn' it seem kinda *too formal* to ask
them to applebees so soon...Should I be going for action dates instead ?
Like pool or Dave & Busters or movies..



dear veterans, please advise a first timer to first dates
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KnightRyder

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well,

I read through some of your responses, I guess my question is basically

is it too formal to ask her to applebees so soon on a first date ?
 

Kaliffoo

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Applebees too formal??? No dude, its fine. In reality it doesn't matter where you go as long as you are having fun. She's gonna remember your attitude and conversation not the ceaser salad she order. The point is, make sure you guys have fun in whatever you do.
 
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