Pretty soon I'm going to be having sex with this girl I like. This will be my first time, and her first time as well. I'm a little worried as far as performance. Shes pretty petite, so I know it's going to hurt her, but I don't want to blow after just a couple of thrusts. Any tips for first time sex people could give me?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
First Time
- Thread starter WhAcKeD!
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't want to sound like a good goodie, but do you really need it? It builds up sexual tension, your relationship becomes less relationship and more sex for you (opposite for her), it makes your girlfriend cling to you more, you'll be an ******* when you 2 break up. I prefer jacking off, personally.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
^what??!
lol. Trust me man, stop thinking about it. I did this for liek dasy prior to "when i was supposed to **** this girl"..yeah, never happened[wait, ti never happened because I went on vacation, came back and then we ran into a buncha drama!!]. still a ****ing virgin.
lol. Trust me man, stop thinking about it. I did this for liek dasy prior to "when i was supposed to **** this girl"..yeah, never happened[wait, ti never happened because I went on vacation, came back and then we ran into a buncha drama!!]. still a ****ing virgin.
having sex for the first time is one of the biggest let downs ever let downs, get it out of the way i say and then it can only get better.
Also
"Im going to be having sex very soon"
what the **** does that mean and how would you know?
Also
"Im going to be having sex very soon"
what the **** does that mean and how would you know?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Void
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Alright first of all don't listen to Bling.
And if she's a virgin too then you'll be the best she's had.
Don't worry about it, just have fun man.
And if she's a virgin too then you'll be the best she's had.
Don't worry about it, just have fun man.
man, it's gonna be really fast, so don't care about it, u can't do nothing. first time is almost always (unless u r lucky) a big delusion... second time will be better... third time rocks, no problem to last at least 10-15 minutes (even more if u want, but ur balls become blue)
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