Pretty soon I'm going to be having sex with this girl I like. This will be my first time, and her first time as well. I'm a little worried as far as performance. Shes pretty petite, so I know it's going to hurt her, but I don't want to blow after just a couple of thrusts. Any tips for first time sex people could give me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First Time
- Thread starter WhAcKeD!
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't want to sound like a good goodie, but do you really need it? It builds up sexual tension, your relationship becomes less relationship and more sex for you (opposite for her), it makes your girlfriend cling to you more, you'll be an ******* when you 2 break up. I prefer jacking off, personally.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
^what??!
lol. Trust me man, stop thinking about it. I did this for liek dasy prior to "when i was supposed to **** this girl"..yeah, never happened[wait, ti never happened because I went on vacation, came back and then we ran into a buncha drama!!]. still a ****ing virgin.
lol. Trust me man, stop thinking about it. I did this for liek dasy prior to "when i was supposed to **** this girl"..yeah, never happened[wait, ti never happened because I went on vacation, came back and then we ran into a buncha drama!!]. still a ****ing virgin.
having sex for the first time is one of the biggest let downs ever let downs, get it out of the way i say and then it can only get better.
Also
"Im going to be having sex very soon"
what the **** does that mean and how would you know?
Also
"Im going to be having sex very soon"
what the **** does that mean and how would you know?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Alright first of all don't listen to Bling.
And if she's a virgin too then you'll be the best she's had.
Don't worry about it, just have fun man.
And if she's a virgin too then you'll be the best she's had.
Don't worry about it, just have fun man.
man, it's gonna be really fast, so don't care about it, u can't do nothing. first time is almost always (unless u r lucky) a big delusion... second time will be better... third time rocks, no problem to last at least 10-15 minutes (even more if u want, but ur balls become blue)
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