Hey guys there's probably a thread like this around here so please link me if you can. I'm just want to hear about the experiences you guys had with your first time having sex. Was it with a random or someone you cared about? Did you regret it? How did it effect your results with girls and confidence afterwards?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
First Time Stories/Advice?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yeah i recall one in Anything Else, i'm sure there have bene dozens of others.
in anycase, i was completely ****faced on E when i lost my v-card at 15. i recall some of it, inside a washroom at a club here in TO called Acid House at something like 3am. some random 17 year old chick who i glowstick fought.
screwed her a few times, but only ever while raving, haven't seen her since 17 when i stopped going.
I sorta regret it now, but at the time it was awesome. It indirectly caused my search for PUA material due to the fact that i seemed to only be able to get chicks as ONS's while raving, if that, which is pretty much the EASIEST way to get laid without directly paying. When i tried to do something outside of there, i'd get shot down or LJBF every single time.
Yeah... Kids, don't do drugs.
in anycase, i was completely ****faced on E when i lost my v-card at 15. i recall some of it, inside a washroom at a club here in TO called Acid House at something like 3am. some random 17 year old chick who i glowstick fought.
screwed her a few times, but only ever while raving, haven't seen her since 17 when i stopped going.
I sorta regret it now, but at the time it was awesome. It indirectly caused my search for PUA material due to the fact that i seemed to only be able to get chicks as ONS's while raving, if that, which is pretty much the EASIEST way to get laid without directly paying. When i tried to do something outside of there, i'd get shot down or LJBF every single time.
Yeah... Kids, don't do drugs.
Cheers man. I actually searched for ages and couldn't find one on here. I don't want to really take advice from people who aren't on the DJ journey. I orginally didn't value my first time at all and just wanted to lose it. When I actually got kind of good with girls I realized it wouldn't be hard and I might as well wait for someone I cared about. However down the road it still has happened, mainly due to logistics, and I'm just trying to work out what kind of standards I would accept for my first time. I've turned a couple chicks down lately and it got me started thinking.
So basically I'm just looking to benefit from the experience of you guys in making my descision.
I don't do Es so that doesn't really apply to me
So basically I'm just looking to benefit from the experience of you guys in making my descision.
I don't do Es so that doesn't really apply to me
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It was really random. I was with three of my friends, two guys including me and two girls. I knew one of the girls liked me but I wasn't really trying to pursue, all of a sudden she rushes me and starts making out with me. We did it in my friends car. It really boosted my confidence afterwards because I always valued sex as the ultimate goal but I really didn't see it was as special as I thought. Stopped jacking off and watching porn, and it actually allowed me to concentrate on other things better.