Hey guys there's probably a thread like this around here so please link me if you can. I'm just want to hear about the experiences you guys had with your first time having sex. Was it with a random or someone you cared about? Did you regret it? How did it effect your results with girls and confidence afterwards?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
First Time Stories/Advice?
- Thread starter SinJester
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yeah i recall one in Anything Else, i'm sure there have bene dozens of others.
in anycase, i was completely ****faced on E when i lost my v-card at 15. i recall some of it, inside a washroom at a club here in TO called Acid House at something like 3am. some random 17 year old chick who i glowstick fought.
screwed her a few times, but only ever while raving, haven't seen her since 17 when i stopped going.
I sorta regret it now, but at the time it was awesome. It indirectly caused my search for PUA material due to the fact that i seemed to only be able to get chicks as ONS's while raving, if that, which is pretty much the EASIEST way to get laid without directly paying. When i tried to do something outside of there, i'd get shot down or LJBF every single time.
Yeah... Kids, don't do drugs.
in anycase, i was completely ****faced on E when i lost my v-card at 15. i recall some of it, inside a washroom at a club here in TO called Acid House at something like 3am. some random 17 year old chick who i glowstick fought.
screwed her a few times, but only ever while raving, haven't seen her since 17 when i stopped going.
I sorta regret it now, but at the time it was awesome. It indirectly caused my search for PUA material due to the fact that i seemed to only be able to get chicks as ONS's while raving, if that, which is pretty much the EASIEST way to get laid without directly paying. When i tried to do something outside of there, i'd get shot down or LJBF every single time.
Yeah... Kids, don't do drugs.
Cheers man. I actually searched for ages and couldn't find one on here. I don't want to really take advice from people who aren't on the DJ journey. I orginally didn't value my first time at all and just wanted to lose it. When I actually got kind of good with girls I realized it wouldn't be hard and I might as well wait for someone I cared about. However down the road it still has happened, mainly due to logistics, and I'm just trying to work out what kind of standards I would accept for my first time. I've turned a couple chicks down lately and it got me started thinking.
So basically I'm just looking to benefit from the experience of you guys in making my descision.
I don't do Es so that doesn't really apply to me
So basically I'm just looking to benefit from the experience of you guys in making my descision.
I don't do Es so that doesn't really apply to me
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
It was really random. I was with three of my friends, two guys including me and two girls. I knew one of the girls liked me but I wasn't really trying to pursue, all of a sudden she rushes me and starts making out with me. We did it in my friends car. It really boosted my confidence afterwards because I always valued sex as the ultimate goal but I really didn't see it was as special as I thought. Stopped jacking off and watching porn, and it actually allowed me to concentrate on other things better.