"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First time interested in a black chick...

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So this is the first time a black girl has ever really caught my eye. She's seriously one of the hottest black girls I've ever seen-maybe even one of the hottest girls I've ever met, black or white.

She has curly hair but she wears it straight sometimes too. She's got a nice body, a degree, and isn't one of those egoistical pretty girls either. She just got out of a 5 year relationship about a year ago so I know she's not a sloot.

Like I said I'm a white guy and this is the first time being interested in a black chick so I just don't know how to really go about things. So what do you think of her? Any tips or stories of dating outside your race?

Here's some pics of her from NYE and with her curly hair.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Either she is really messed up or someone really messed up. Smoking hot from what I can see in the pictures.

Just treat her like you would any woman you are interested in getting to know better regardless of her race or ethnicity. Either she will show she is receptive to you or she will shut you down quick.
 

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Either she is really messed up or someone really messed up. Smoking hot from what I can see in the pictures.

Just treat her like you would any woman you are interested in getting to know better regardless of her race or ethnicity. Either she will show she is receptive to you or she will shut you down quick.
I know her ex really messed up. He cheated so she's just been single since last year. Said she's been focusing on herself.
 

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I think you have to approach it like any other girl. Doesn't matter if they are white, black, or green the approach should never change.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is only one race, the human race.

Even, aliens must think girls are nuts.

So its a girl like any other, don't judge escal ate if she turns you on
 

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All women are the same. Don't worry about her race, that sh!t shouldn't matter as far as you are concerned so put it out of your head otherwise she will pick up on the fact that you are concerned about it and it will make you look weak.... but like with all things with women. EVERYTHING starts with HER interest level. If she has a problem with the fact you are white, nothing is going to happen. OTOH, some black chicks, especially hot ones, only date white dudes.
 

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Interesting thread.

I've never been in to black girls either. But, I had a really sexy dream about a week back, and now I want to date some in 2017.



You should cut that sh*t out for a start.

You're already in her frame.
Yea I've only been into white girls but I'm thinking it's time to step out of my comfort zone a little bit.

There's just something so incredibly sexy about her. I know she's an enigma to me so she seems even more apppealing haha. Not trying to put her on a pedestal, but she's definitely a gem. She's getting ready to apply for law school so I can't help but think she's a complete package so far.
 

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Put your bid in and keep it moving. No meed to make a thread for this.

How do you know/met her?
 

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Hot is hot! Regardless of race/nationality.

I don't discriminate based on nationality.

Mixed girls, can be insanely gorgeous!!!

I mean crazy!!!:confused::cool::p:D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Put your bid in and keep it moving. No meed to make a thread for this.

How do you know/met her?
Yea I think I'm about to.

She and her girlfriends were out at dinner and one my boys went to go talk to her friend. We all hung out as one big group the rest of the night so she and I ended up talking for a good while. Eventually added each other on social media.
 

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When black women are hot damn are they hot. The hottest black girl I seen was at a music venue and she was dark as dirt, but she was a damn beauty, and at the time I wasn't even in to black women.

Truth be told as a mulatto I think mulattas are overrated and pure african women look better. Mulattas all look the same to me
 

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Hot is hot! Regardless of race/nationality.

I don't discriminate based on nationality.

Mixed girls, can be insanely gorgeous!!!

I mean crazy!!!:confused::cool::p:D
Haha and what about just straight up black girls? She's not even mixed o_O which blew my mind. Made me wonder how many other hot black girls are out there.
 

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When black women are hot damn are they hot. The hottest black girl I seen was at a music venue and she was dark as dirt, but she was a damn beauty, and at the time I wasn't even in to black women.

Truth be told as a mulatto I think mulattas are overrated and pure african women look better. Mulattas all look the same to me
Have to check them out now too lol.
I think her curly hair jusy really does it for me. Black women just seems so versatile in the looks department. From skin tone to hair - so many looks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha and what about just straight up black girls? She's not even mixed o_O which blew my mind. Made me wonder how many other hot black girls are out there.
For me... They're rare. I'm about 1 out of maybe 20. But, they're out there, I've had jungle fever for umfufu many times.
 

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That girl is more mixed than rum and coke. Pure black women don't have light skin and narrow noses.
Pure black women don't exist.
 

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That girl is more mixed than rum and coke. Pure black women don't have light skin and narrow noses.
Yea I thought the same thing as you (either black and white or Latina), but nope she said black.She obviously has white in her blood so I asked her and she said both of her parents black. Her great grandfather was half white and black but that was it.

I highly doubt any black person has only black in them this day and age, but her immediate blood line is black.
 

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Yea I thought the same thing as you (either black and white or Latina), but nope she said black.She obviously has white in her blood so I asked her and she said both of her parents black. Her great grandfather was half white and black but that was it.

I highly doubt any black person has only black in them this day and age, but her immediate blood line is black.
Yeah most blacks in America are at least 25% white...often will a dose of native or chinese as well. In the old days they'd be called mulatto or sambo, but nowadays you're "black" if you have remotely african features.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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