Novice1
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Got matched on fb dating, i invited her to fish and hike and thats nextweek friday. im filipino - cebuano to be exact. This is a big progress boys and sir's
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
First time dating a foreign
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm pretty sure in the UK these foreign girls (can be 3rd or 4th gen by now) get overlooked a lot, and get lumped into the "Muslim, no point trying".
Even those that aren't Muslim (plenty) don't like our ridiculous culture of excess drinking around everything. As a non drinker myself, not really enamoured with our "evening scene" any more they are a pleasant cohort although their looks are wildly binary. Attention off a sober white man is novel to them.
Good luck.
Even those that aren't Muslim (plenty) don't like our ridiculous culture of excess drinking around everything. As a non drinker myself, not really enamoured with our "evening scene" any more they are a pleasant cohort although their looks are wildly binary. Attention off a sober white man is novel to them.
Good luck.
Novice1
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Muslim there and here in my country is very different (as what they told me) i think rejection is better than regret anyways
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Let us know how it goes
Novice1
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sure, will do
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.