"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I asked this girl to hangout with me after school tomorrow, I've been texting her/ talking to her for 2 weeks or so (not straight, just sporadically) using plenty of sexual jokes and advances but I'm not sure how well versed she is on that type of approach. Should I just go for a kiss to possibly make out or do you think that will be taking it too far? I'm not nervous to do it, I just don't want it to be awkward. And Im not trying to date her.

sorry if there is a thread somewhere about this....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go for the kiss. Assume attraction. Get in the mindset where you know your gonna kiss her and it wont be awkward.
 
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Go for the kiss. Assume attraction. Get in the mindset where you know your gonna kiss her and it wont be awkward.
 
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If you asked her out (not as a friend), then act that way.
Give her a good hug/kiss on the cheek when she arrives. Hold hands within 5 minutes. Arm around waist/over shoulders is cool too. Kiss her before the end of the date (not at the end!)
 
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