"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I asked this girl to hangout with me after school tomorrow, I've been texting her/ talking to her for 2 weeks or so (not straight, just sporadically) using plenty of sexual jokes and advances but I'm not sure how well versed she is on that type of approach. Should I just go for a kiss to possibly make out or do you think that will be taking it too far? I'm not nervous to do it, I just don't want it to be awkward. And Im not trying to date her.

sorry if there is a thread somewhere about this....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go for the kiss. Assume attraction. Get in the mindset where you know your gonna kiss her and it wont be awkward.
 
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Go for the kiss. Assume attraction. Get in the mindset where you know your gonna kiss her and it wont be awkward.
 
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If you asked her out (not as a friend), then act that way.
Give her a good hug/kiss on the cheek when she arrives. Hold hands within 5 minutes. Arm around waist/over shoulders is cool too. Kiss her before the end of the date (not at the end!)
 
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