That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
True. But in my experience there is something about 5 year periods that fvck with chicks minds. 25, 30, 35, 40 ..... they go through paradigm shifts whenever they hit these marks. If you have a chick that's been a 'good' girl in a monogamous relationship, then she hits 25... she becomes a sex freak.... and vis a vis, There really is no way to predict how a chick is going to change, unless you know what she was like before.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Picture it this way, my relationship(s) is pretty much the same as the conventional one, with less drama and more freedom. In the end, a realistic 2017-evolved relationship.
