Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True. But in my experience there is something about 5 year periods that fvck with chicks minds. 25, 30, 35, 40 ..... they go through paradigm shifts whenever they hit these marks. If you have a chick that's been a 'good' girl in a monogamous relationship, then she hits 25... she becomes a sex freak.... and vis a vis, There really is no way to predict how a chick is going to change, unless you know what she was like before.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Picture it this way, my relationship(s) is pretty much the same as the conventional one, with less drama and more freedom. In the end, a realistic 2017-evolved relationship.
