"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First signs of oneitis ... I NEED AN ANTIDOTE

LIKEaBAWZ

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Or ive got a crush on that girl ... i dno .

A few months ago i posted here cuz i was a AFC and i thought a friend zone girl of mine was interested in me .
At that time i wasn't ready to handle a girl like that so i took some distance from her and handled some stuff in my life like getting into art school.

Meanwhile i fooled around with some girls , got into art school (which is full of girls) and started having more confidence and feeling allot better .
Lately i'm noticing that allot of girls are liking me ;) .

Now lately ive realized that the friend zone girl is still my #1 , even tho she is only a 7 i still want her more than like a 9 i also met a while ago and was into .
Basically i cant get her out of my head , so i don't go for girls who actually like me .

Anyone got some advice what to do ? or should i just keep being awesome and happy and just meet new girls all the time .

greetz ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thevilittletroll

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keep going for new girls and forget about your oneitis. let her come to you. she has a first impression of you being an afc. its really hard to change that impression. her seing other girls that are attracted to you is the best way to change her perception of you. keep on gaming other hot girls.
 

LIKEaBAWZ

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ok will do !

I dont think she really sees me as an AFC , these last months ive changed so much and i dont take **** from anyone basicly but i'm not a douchebag :p .
And i do notice when i got out with my friends and she is there , that her body language changes towards me when i get attention from other girls .

greetz
 
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