"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First signs of oneitis ... I NEED AN ANTIDOTE

LIKEaBAWZ

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Or ive got a crush on that girl ... i dno .

A few months ago i posted here cuz i was a AFC and i thought a friend zone girl of mine was interested in me .
At that time i wasn't ready to handle a girl like that so i took some distance from her and handled some stuff in my life like getting into art school.

Meanwhile i fooled around with some girls , got into art school (which is full of girls) and started having more confidence and feeling allot better .
Lately i'm noticing that allot of girls are liking me ;) .

Now lately ive realized that the friend zone girl is still my #1 , even tho she is only a 7 i still want her more than like a 9 i also met a while ago and was into .
Basically i cant get her out of my head , so i don't go for girls who actually like me .

Anyone got some advice what to do ? or should i just keep being awesome and happy and just meet new girls all the time .

greetz ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thevilittletroll

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keep going for new girls and forget about your oneitis. let her come to you. she has a first impression of you being an afc. its really hard to change that impression. her seing other girls that are attracted to you is the best way to change her perception of you. keep on gaming other hot girls.
 

LIKEaBAWZ

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ok will do !

I dont think she really sees me as an AFC , these last months ive changed so much and i dont take **** from anyone basicly but i'm not a douchebag :p .
And i do notice when i got out with my friends and she is there , that her body language changes towards me when i get attention from other girls .

greetz
 
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