"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First She Won't Give Me Time Of Day, Now She's Approaching, What Gives?

Leporello

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That reminds me of a (female) friend of mine. This guy was totally in love with her for years, she didn't want him back. Then she got her heart broken by some other guy, and all of a sudden she was totally for him and he didn't give a fvck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan11

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It's funny how you first say you "work with this girl at an Organization" and then you say she "sits beside you at church"

It doesn't matter how you feel about it, it matters how she responds. You're already thinking she will fall in love with you if you "pursue something" with her.
 

PimpPUA

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OK, people have been giving me grief so I changed my onscreen name to PimpPUA, from you know what. Actually she seems like a very nice girl and I'd be more interested in a relationship with her, for obvious reasons.
 
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