That reminds me of a (female) friend of mine. This guy was totally in love with her for years, she didn't want him back. Then she got her heart broken by some other guy, and all of a sudden she was totally for him and he didn't give a fvck.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.