"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First She Won't Give Me Time Of Day, Now She's Approaching, What Gives?

Leporello

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That reminds me of a (female) friend of mine. This guy was totally in love with her for years, she didn't want him back. Then she got her heart broken by some other guy, and all of a sudden she was totally for him and he didn't give a fvck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuan11

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It's funny how you first say you "work with this girl at an Organization" and then you say she "sits beside you at church"

It doesn't matter how you feel about it, it matters how she responds. You're already thinking she will fall in love with you if you "pursue something" with her.
 

PimpPUA

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OK, people have been giving me grief so I changed my onscreen name to PimpPUA, from you know what. Actually she seems like a very nice girl and I'd be more interested in a relationship with her, for obvious reasons.
 
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