"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

First Rule of Attracting Women

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
I would like to talk to you about the very first tip on my blog. Before you can approach a girl you have to have the confidence to be able to approach her. Confidence is a powerful trait very attractive women look for in men. There are several things that you can do to raise your confidence: go to the gym, eat healthy, take your multivitamins, make friends with people like yourself, and practice approaching women… It will take time but it is the first golden tip to become better with women. Remember a woman can see through a guy who has no confidence and will see him as just a friend. Women usually know within the first few minutes if you are a guy their interested in or not. There is no changing the way they feel.

Here is an example where I would use confidence to attract a woman. I am walking down the street and I see a beautiful blonde walking her chihuahua. I show no hesitation and walk right up to her and say “nice dog.” I think chihuahuas are great dogs whats your name? And then I introduce myself. She will have a good reaction to this based on my confidence.What do you think would have been her reaction if I would have walked up to her with no confidence? She probably would have put me in the friend category right away. Remember to be bold and daring.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
Confidence is the 2nd rule. 1st rule is to get out of the house in the first place.
 

Willis

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2007
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
How do u know im anti social dont leave my crib?
cause i never leave it......................................... ever. lol
 
Last edited:

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top