"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First Rule of Attracting Women

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I would like to talk to you about the very first tip on my blog. Before you can approach a girl you have to have the confidence to be able to approach her. Confidence is a powerful trait very attractive women look for in men. There are several things that you can do to raise your confidence: go to the gym, eat healthy, take your multivitamins, make friends with people like yourself, and practice approaching women… It will take time but it is the first golden tip to become better with women. Remember a woman can see through a guy who has no confidence and will see him as just a friend. Women usually know within the first few minutes if you are a guy their interested in or not. There is no changing the way they feel.

Here is an example where I would use confidence to attract a woman. I am walking down the street and I see a beautiful blonde walking her chihuahua. I show no hesitation and walk right up to her and say “nice dog.” I think chihuahuas are great dogs whats your name? And then I introduce myself. She will have a good reaction to this based on my confidence.What do you think would have been her reaction if I would have walked up to her with no confidence? She probably would have put me in the friend category right away. Remember to be bold and daring.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Confidence is the 2nd rule. 1st rule is to get out of the house in the first place.
 

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How do u know im anti social dont leave my crib?
cause i never leave it......................................... ever. lol
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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