"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First Rule of Attracting Women

bachelor

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I would like to talk to you about the very first tip on my blog. Before you can approach a girl you have to have the confidence to be able to approach her. Confidence is a powerful trait very attractive women look for in men. There are several things that you can do to raise your confidence: go to the gym, eat healthy, take your multivitamins, make friends with people like yourself, and practice approaching women… It will take time but it is the first golden tip to become better with women. Remember a woman can see through a guy who has no confidence and will see him as just a friend. Women usually know within the first few minutes if you are a guy their interested in or not. There is no changing the way they feel.

Here is an example where I would use confidence to attract a woman. I am walking down the street and I see a beautiful blonde walking her chihuahua. I show no hesitation and walk right up to her and say “nice dog.” I think chihuahuas are great dogs whats your name? And then I introduce myself. She will have a good reaction to this based on my confidence.What do you think would have been her reaction if I would have walked up to her with no confidence? She probably would have put me in the friend category right away. Remember to be bold and daring.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Confidence is the 2nd rule. 1st rule is to get out of the house in the first place.
 

Willis

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How do u know im anti social dont leave my crib?
cause i never leave it......................................... ever. lol
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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