"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First Post Of An Aspiring Don Juan

Young Stallion

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Hey,

This is my first post ever on the sosuave board.

I'm a 21 year old University student from a University in Canada.

To be quite honest I have never been very successfull with girls. In fact I have only ever had 1 girlfriend in my life. That was for one week in grade 12.

In grade 12 I got hurt really really badly by a girl (A different one than the one I dated), and it was an incident that changed my life forever, because from that day forward I vowed to learn what girls were attracted too and what they were not.

It turned out that I used to be the biggest nice guy wuss on the planet. Anyways since then I have read every Doc Love article for the last 3 years and have had a subscription to the David D'Angelo newsletter for the past 2 years. I have also purchased David D'Angelo's Double Your Dating EBook.

Besides this I have read countless articles and actually believe it or not I am friends with a guy who everyone considers the master player......he has had sex with over 125 girls and he is only 22 years old. Now that's Game.

Speaking about Game, I guess you can say that I am a dedicated Student of the "Game". Actually for a time I tried to talk about philosophies of attraction on another messageboard.......however that messageboard turned out to be overrun by very bitter not very nice people. So I didn't get many positive things accomplished.

I would love to talk about attraction philosophies and about the game, what works and what doesn't. Although in real life I have a pretty bad time making what I know should work......actually work. Nonetheless I am very enthused about all of this stuff and I look forward to many cool and insightfull discussions. Who knows maybe I'll learn something that let's me turn the corner.

Thanks alot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dukester

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look forward to more of your threads. just hope it aint bull****, and you arent faking it.

it's hard to earn trust in here, so your **** better be good!

good luck to ya on sosuave
 

Scought

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First of all...no relationships....they are a waste of time, and you are too young. Hang out and let what is, be. you need to experiment, learn, grow...be your own man. Dont worry about number of gfs, thats retarded. Your friend with "game" didnt lay 125 (aka) 30 girls by being in a relationship.

Sit back and enjoy the ride. Monogamy can come later, much later. If your philosophies are so tight, but they dont work, well, then, they arent so tight. Sorry.


Just cutting through the Political correctness, and shootin you straight. Wish there was more of it.
 

Young Stallion

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Good Point

Very true,

That's absolutely true Scought, my theories obviously aren't so tight.......which is why I'm posting here and trying to learn things in order to get better game lol.

Yah I'll face reality, a 21 year old guy who has only kissed like one girl in his life, obviously is doing something very very wrong.

Mind you I'm not the best looking guy in the world DESPITE the fact I work out all the time and I have a pretty good body. I also train with a personal fitness instructor just because I'm a spoiled little brat who has the money to do so....JK. More like I don't use my money wisely.

I know I have a bunch of limitations due to my facial appearance, but I'm not about to sit here and whine about it and feel sorry for myself too a whole bunch of well knowledged people who I do not know in real life.

However I am looking into my options in that regard now that I am old enough to make decisions for myself.

Anyways just wanted to say how very true what you guys said was......it is kind of contradictory that a guy who supposedly knows alot about the "game" would be as painfully brutal with girls as I am.......but oh well that's why I am a dedicated student of all of this.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Being a man with "game" is all about action and purpose.

You don't need seduction techniques, and all this nlp BS. Even a dating "philosophy" that you say you have can be murder.

Stop analyzing everything. It's pointless, and you will get stuck in a cycle where instead of taking action, you're stopping to think... and this is making you miss opportunities.

Back to the top line: if you take action in every aspect of your life... women included and you do it with a sense of purpose, then you are instantly very attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex.

The best part is, you just have to follow your gut and do things on your own terms. Don't supplicate for anyone.

Easy as that.

The Bad Ass Canadian
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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