"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First Post in 3 yrs....long bio/ update

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Hey guys... It's been awhile since I have been here. About 3 years actually.
I used to prowl the forums, my old name was snowboarder6578. Those were the days when Jester was the main poster. Anyway a little quick update and bio about me. I have come a long way in 3 years.

I found the boards and immediately began putting the DJ bible to action. I got into a 1 and 1/2 year LTR that I ended in August of 2005. I spent my 3rd semester in college having fun a few hookups, 1 f-close and a lot of #'s. I ended up joining the Army and got in another LTR.

I have been with my g/f now for over 2 years. I just got back from deployment and she has been faithful... that I know of ... so things are going well. That was May.

I will be attending University again this fall and I am happy with my life. I came on here for two reasons :

1. To say thanks to all the people who helped me become the man I am
2. To inspire people to show that even though you are depressed and sad now things in your life can turn around.

I am here to awnser questions about LTR's and continue to learn and grow as a man.


p.s ( Regardless of your views of the military and the war, please do not comment. I am not here to discuss this or defend my decisions. The point of the thread was to show that I was leading my life the way I wanted too, regardless off society's rules)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the whole post and though I don't agree with the war I will say its good you made it home in one piece and have experienced great success in life living the DJ way.

Welcome back to the U.S and the DJ board brother. :up:
 
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KontrollerX

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Nice bro.

Anyway thought I'd update ya on the state of the site since you've been gone so long and might want to know who some of the best posters are to look out for so you can take in some of the knowledge that they have to give...

Victory Unlimited- inspirational poster who posts DJ knowledge in an enjoyable and entertaining military themed way which you in particular should enjoy even more than the rest of us already do.

Karma Sutra- the forum's mystic, great man whose been through a lot in life, maybe more bad than good and was way down but thanks to this board and the undying heart that beats inside of him has turned it all around and now mentors younger men in need of a role model here and in his real life.

Senor Fingerz- legendary poster who made his return recently and has helped tons of people here turn their lives around.

Iqqi- bit of a trouble maker at times, ok maybe a lot of a trouble maker at times but probably does have a good heart deep down and is a female poster to watch for here who occassionally gives great advice.

Penkitten- arguably the most respected and well known female poster ever on the board. Can't recommend Penny's posts highly enough and she has even made a DJ chat of sorts where tons of posters here meetup in on Sundays I believe and I really need to make an appearance there one of these days.

Interceptor- Very similar to VU in his inspirational posting structure. Very good problem solver of a guy and attacks issues and problems from every angle to help a struggling DJ get themselves sorted out. The attacking things from every angle is what I personally refer to as taking a global approach at helping people which I engage in as well but I'm more of a reply guy than a topic maker which Interceptor is.

Reset- good poster and good example of a guy that was struggling who gave this board a chance and turned it all around and became confident when he was struggling greatly in life.

Well thats a short list of the great posters we have here and I'm sure I've missed a few.

The ones I didn't do a biography on are probably the best currently on the site and you should see them soon enough if you stick around but I'll tell ya they are: Rollo Tomassi, Str8up, joekerr and Desdinova.
 
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KontrollerX,

good summary but you forgot to mention a key poster

LastManStanding - resident moralist, constantly calling out the hor populace which sometimes scares newby's cuz they don't know where he's coming from


ps I'm the forum manwh0re who promotes engaging in as much activity with the hor populace as possible, however other than cheating and spreading the seed, my advice is generally sound
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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Damn.

See how I forget stuff?

Mac and LMS both deserved on the list lol.

If he was here years ago LMS was then known as PuertoRican Lover.

Either way he's the zany old uncle of the forum heh.
 
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I used to be known as baseballDJ three years ago-ish.

I've had about the same experience as you (excluding the army part).

Nice to see that your back. I go to Northern New Jersey on school breaks.

What school do you go to?

comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco D'Anconia is one of the smartest posters on here. Listen to what he has to say.

Your welcome Francisco :)
 
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