"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First post..Got a question.

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Alright, how's it going guys


I live in a house that is right on the water.
Across the way, there are two girls that seem interested in me.

Last time i talked to them(they only live there sometimes over the summer) they said "swim over on Labor Day and say hi"

How do you fellas think i should play this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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suprise suprsie: swim over there and say hi. then invite them to coem skinny-dipping with you.
say ru kidding, btu ask them if they want to swim.
 
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U seem pretty damn AFC to me. If I knew 2 girls were very interested in me, it'd be like cakework getting them into bed. C'mon man ! Read the dj bible or something.
 
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Originally posted by Kaspar6
Alright, how's it going guys


I live in a house that is right on the water.
Across the way, there are two girls that seem interested in me.

Last time i talked to them(they only live there sometimes over the summer) they said "swim over on Labor Day and say hi"

How do you fellas think i should play this?
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Um, follow the signs on the website is the best way of solving your problems. But, ill answer your question, swim over and say hi. Just go, if they are not there, their loss, dont mope over them. They have one shto with you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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