This is my first post on here but i will get right down to it. Anyway a little back ground, at this one bar i frequent maybe 1-2 times a week there is this bartender that i kinda know (small talk) and that i am very attacted to ( i know shes a bartender and she does get hit on many times a night) but she seems differnt to me than other bartenders. anyway ive gotten to know her casually over the last couple of months mostly just a little chit chat but she has a tendancy to come over to me if i am standing near the bar and will make a comment about the surroundings, other customers etc. (as note it is a very busy place and most times she works her ass off). Any way a couple of weeks ago she kinda caught me off gaurd by say that i was her favorite customer and then last friday at the end of the night i was going to tell her good night and she went in for a hug (completly surprised me). On saturday she was kinda quiet but she is that way from time to time but toward the end of the night someone put a heart shaped moneygami? in her tip tub and she looked at me and pointed (with a slight smile) kinda like i was the one that put it in their but i didn't (wish i was more creative) so i shook my head like so she knew it wasn't me. Any way i have tought about asking her out for some time but had to get other things settled first, but i believe now is the time or i risk losing her to disintrest. Any way any ideas or suggestions on how i should handle taking this to the next step?
FYI she is 25/26 HB 7/8 5'-4 110lbs brunnet/blue eyes and i am 33 maybe a 5/6 210 lbs 6'3
FYI she is 25/26 HB 7/8 5'-4 110lbs brunnet/blue eyes and i am 33 maybe a 5/6 210 lbs 6'3