“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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first post and advice needed

HBBforme

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This is my first post on here but i will get right down to it. Anyway a little back ground, at this one bar i frequent maybe 1-2 times a week there is this bartender that i kinda know (small talk) and that i am very attacted to ( i know shes a bartender and she does get hit on many times a night) but she seems differnt to me than other bartenders. anyway ive gotten to know her casually over the last couple of months mostly just a little chit chat but she has a tendancy to come over to me if i am standing near the bar and will make a comment about the surroundings, other customers etc. (as note it is a very busy place and most times she works her ass off). Any way a couple of weeks ago she kinda caught me off gaurd by say that i was her favorite customer and then last friday at the end of the night i was going to tell her good night and she went in for a hug (completly surprised me). On saturday she was kinda quiet but she is that way from time to time but toward the end of the night someone put a heart shaped moneygami? in her tip tub and she looked at me and pointed (with a slight smile) kinda like i was the one that put it in their but i didn't (wish i was more creative) so i shook my head like so she knew it wasn't me. Any way i have tought about asking her out for some time but had to get other things settled first, but i believe now is the time or i risk losing her to disintrest. Any way any ideas or suggestions on how i should handle taking this to the next step?
FYI she is 25/26 HB 7/8 5'-4 110lbs brunnet/blue eyes and i am 33 maybe a 5/6 210 lbs 6'3
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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HBBforme said:
Any way any ideas or suggestions on how i should handle taking this to the next step?3
Just do it.

Oh **** I hope nike doesnt sue me.
 

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Seriously though, what is holding you back?

I'm guessing lack of self confidence.

That's the most important thing a man can possess because everything follows when that is achieved.

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HBBforme

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yeah the old lack of confidence. Any suggestions / ideas on asking her?
 

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Ask her out, but not for a drink. Something different, as she does this crap 7 days a week. Maybe a lunch date, or something outdoorsy. If she is anywhere interested, it wont matter, it will be an excuse to spend 1 on 1 time with you.

If she is not interested, you will get lame ass excuses.
 
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