First Online Date Since Breakup - Rejection

[BackInTheGame78]

You can kind of tell by her expression/body language when first meeting to see what she thinks of you.

100% yes, but that doesn't mean you can't change her mind via skilled interactions.

 

[anour]

It's a rejection sans for beta roles. He could follow her IG, like all her pics, then sub to her Onlyfans. All while she blows me in my Lexus. With the OF sub, the OP can watch me unload in her and watch her swallow.

Men and women can't be platonic friends. Mode one bro.

Anything other than a yes, complete with the actions to back it up, is a no.

Where can i find threads about mode 1?

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

100% yes, but that doesn't mean you can't change her mind via skilled interactions.

Maybe, but if they give a bad reaction, I personally see it as the end of the date.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Something tells me you were in an LTR for a long while, a very long while. This is just the reality of modern dating. Gaslighting, love bombing, attention seeking, time-wasting, etc, etc, etc, and every now and then you meet a cool girl and hopefully by then you have your stuff together enough that she'll stick around for a bit.

At the end of the day, yesterday was your turn, today it will be somebody else's.

This is pretty bang on.

 

[Gamisch]

So to tonality & physical escalation is a must first dates?

I'd like to call this FRAME.

In this example tonality is connected to how and when you'll escalate. Eventually everything is connected.

They have a saying that says: how you start is how you finish. She doesn't know you, you decide what she'll see. That's why I never talk about previous relationships in detail. If she lingers around and really wants to know it might be a conversational topic one day. But talking about your ex(es) as a man will only lead to two negative outcomes:

- you diminish your own level of attractiveness by "admitting " the previous women in your life felt like you wasn't good enough.

- you'll come across a whiny, high standards and not necessarily as a man who knows how to have fun.

Escalation imo is extremely important. You can have a"great conversation " for hours and hours , without escalation is might mean nothing to her. Escalation should be done because " something unexplainable was pulling you towards her like a magnet".

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

I'd like to call this FRAME.

In this example tonality is connected to how and when you'll escalate. Eventually everything is connected.

They have a saying that says: how you start is how you finish. She doesn't know you, you decide what she'll see. That's why I never talk about previous relationships in detail. If she lingers around and really wants to know it might be a conversational topic one day. But talking about your ex(es) as a man will only lead to two negative outcomes:

- you diminish your own level of attractiveness by "admitting " the previous women in your life felt like you wasn't good enough.

- you'll come across a whiny, high standards and not necessarily as a man who knows how to have fun.

Escalation imo is extremely important. You can have a"great conversation " for hours and hours , without escalation is might mean nothing to her. Escalation should be done because " something unexplainable was pulling you towards her like a magnet".

I never really use kino in dates. I need to start implementing it.

As an aspie, that can be quite daunting at the beginning as well. It's definitely doable, but it just makes it a bit more difficult to implement.