"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First one night stand at college.

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Yea IM finally getting the hang of my college social life, I know tons of people, have a lot of hook ups with parties and I have made a name for my self.

Well the other night it went to a hole new level, I went to my friends frat party and I ran into a girl that I met the weekend before and apparently she was feeling me, well a few drinks and a few hours later my moment arrived, she gave me and a friend a ride back to our dorm in her green mustang and my friend that was with us asked me if I was going with him or staying with her, well she sed "your not leaving me are you"? so of course I was not going to leave this 21 year old (IM 18) sorority girl hangen,we were supposed to go out to eat breakfast but I ended up going to her apartment at 3 in the morning and not leaving until 4 in the afternoon, well apparently I made a hell of an imprison because when got back to school on one of the most beautiful days iv ever had down here, she called and asked me if I want to have a "Movie night" with her, maybe IM ***** wiped but I spent last night in her apartment and she gave me a ride back this morning.

So this girl that's almost four years older then me and now hooked on me, its just the ego boost I needed, Iv had some bad luck lately and that was exactly the brake I needed, so IM not sure where this thing with this girl is going but all I know is for once in my life I don't want attachment, I just want to have a good time and with as many people as possible, IM an eighteen year old college freshmen Donjuan in training and IM not looking for a girl friend, if something happens then that's cool but I think I should experience all I can first.

Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today."-James dean
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PhoenixPUA

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Remember what you said about relationships the nxt time you **** a girl and she hints tiwards wanting a relationship. It will work wonders, trust me.
 

killerasp

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treasure the next 4 years man...you will miss them deeply when you get out. im graduating in 2 months and im making the most of every SECOND that i have here at school.
 

DJ Bishop

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Originally posted by killerasp
treasure the next 4 years man...you will miss them deeply when you get out. im graduating in 2 months and im making the most of every SECOND that i have here at school.
Med/Law school. Another 4. :p
 

killerasp

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true..but once you are in grad school..its no longer school..grad school is like a job. 9-5 with studying at night.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Bishop

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Not fun... looks like I need to start enjoying my time more, as well.
 

Julian

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So you fucced her right?
 

DJ_Dork

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wouldn't call it a "one night stand" more like 'you banged her' the first time around. chicks who really dig a guy and allow them to bang her make it real easy.. and basically YES, when a girl opens the door for you - to most girls it is perceived as wanting a relationship from you.
 
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