"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey guys, whats a good message to send out to someone when you first see their profile online?

i have a much easier time in bars and such, because its strait forward...

online is more of a challenge..

i normaly say something like
hey was just looking at the people in my area, you caught my eye, and i would like to get to know you a little better...

works, but i dont know if its good enough... let me know what you think
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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C & F has been a big turd for me online. Its often misconstrued by its recipient because there is no body language or tonality or context to back it up. I have had better success with opinion openers or being rather overtly complimentary. I have been known to get as high as a 50%+ response rate to initial messages.
 
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im going to just have to test a few out; we will see the outcome

i tried the funny way:
"Your not a kidney theif are you?" (and thats it)

The c & f way:
"you look almost as good as me, and im always looking for meaningful one night stands. Hit me back"

and the nice way:
"Was crusin around and your picture caught my eye, your cute! I also noticed, you have two eyes, as well as i do... so we have that in common... so far soo good...lol"
 
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