"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BigKyle

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hey guys, whats a good message to send out to someone when you first see their profile online?

i have a much easier time in bars and such, because its strait forward...

online is more of a challenge..

i normaly say something like
hey was just looking at the people in my area, you caught my eye, and i would like to get to know you a little better...

works, but i dont know if its good enough... let me know what you think
 

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C & F has been a big turd for me online. Its often misconstrued by its recipient because there is no body language or tonality or context to back it up. I have had better success with opinion openers or being rather overtly complimentary. I have been known to get as high as a 50%+ response rate to initial messages.
 
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im going to just have to test a few out; we will see the outcome

i tried the funny way:
"Your not a kidney theif are you?" (and thats it)

The c & f way:
"you look almost as good as me, and im always looking for meaningful one night stands. Hit me back"

and the nice way:
"Was crusin around and your picture caught my eye, your cute! I also noticed, you have two eyes, as well as i do... so we have that in common... so far soo good...lol"
 
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