"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey guys, whats a good message to send out to someone when you first see their profile online?

i have a much easier time in bars and such, because its strait forward...

online is more of a challenge..

i normaly say something like
hey was just looking at the people in my area, you caught my eye, and i would like to get to know you a little better...

works, but i dont know if its good enough... let me know what you think
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C & F has been a big turd for me online. Its often misconstrued by its recipient because there is no body language or tonality or context to back it up. I have had better success with opinion openers or being rather overtly complimentary. I have been known to get as high as a 50%+ response rate to initial messages.
 
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im going to just have to test a few out; we will see the outcome

i tried the funny way:
"Your not a kidney theif are you?" (and thats it)

The c & f way:
"you look almost as good as me, and im always looking for meaningful one night stands. Hit me back"

and the nice way:
"Was crusin around and your picture caught my eye, your cute! I also noticed, you have two eyes, as well as i do... so we have that in common... so far soo good...lol"
 
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