"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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first job interview, help!

iCY

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im going in for a job interview at banana republic
this is my first job/interview and its just for the position of sales associate. it isnt really anything big lol but im assming i should still dress up business-casually.

any tips/advice ??
also what should i wear? dress shirt(bold or striped?), dress pants, dress shoes.

anything i should know before the interview?
what can i expect during the interview?
should i follow up with anything?

i might be freaking out/thinking too much but it is my first haha and i want to get it right.

thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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be five minutes early because that looks great.
if they make you fill out any forms, do it as neat as possible.
make sure you look your best, wear dress clothes for a retail job interview and make sure your shoes are clean. fix your hair.
smile and say yes sir or mam when you are asked a question.
if you are asked when you can start , a good reply is right away, i can start right now.
another good thing to say is " i may not have alot of experience, but i can learn fast and if you give me a shot, i wont let you down."

look at the interviewers face, try not to look down at the floor alot even if you are nervous.
and spit the gum out before you go in.


good luck = let us know!
 

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thanks, i get the basic idea

just 1 last thing lol

would it be bad to wear a more stylish dress shirt(like colored stripes) or should i just wear a plain dress shirt?
 
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