"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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first job interview, help!

iCY

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im going in for a job interview at banana republic
this is my first job/interview and its just for the position of sales associate. it isnt really anything big lol but im assming i should still dress up business-casually.

any tips/advice ??
also what should i wear? dress shirt(bold or striped?), dress pants, dress shoes.

anything i should know before the interview?
what can i expect during the interview?
should i follow up with anything?

i might be freaking out/thinking too much but it is my first haha and i want to get it right.

thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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be five minutes early because that looks great.
if they make you fill out any forms, do it as neat as possible.
make sure you look your best, wear dress clothes for a retail job interview and make sure your shoes are clean. fix your hair.
smile and say yes sir or mam when you are asked a question.
if you are asked when you can start , a good reply is right away, i can start right now.
another good thing to say is " i may not have alot of experience, but i can learn fast and if you give me a shot, i wont let you down."

look at the interviewers face, try not to look down at the floor alot even if you are nervous.
and spit the gum out before you go in.


good luck = let us know!
 

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thanks, i get the basic idea

just 1 last thing lol

would it be bad to wear a more stylish dress shirt(like colored stripes) or should i just wear a plain dress shirt?
 
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