Paranoid
Senior Don Juan
First Impressions Count
...so make the most of it.You know how people say that a first impression takes only a few seconds to make but years to change.And most of it is true.However when people refer to first impressions,it usually is a negative reference that they fall back to.As if to say "you better make one hell of a first impression or else you have very little chance of getting a women to like you".All this may be true....
...but there are two sides to every coin.So first impressions also work in a positive way.Just like it takes a huge effort on your part to change a first bad impression,it would take a lot of screw-ups on your part to change a good first impression.As long as you have made a postive impression on a lady you have just met,you indeed can get away with a few muck-ups later on.But this would work for you,only and only if, you knew how to MAKE good first impressions.So therein lies the question....how does one leave a first good impression on ladies that you may potentially start dating later on?How to avoid being cast into the "loser" category only after just meeting her?How to project yourself as some kind of an exceptionally attractive and dateable man? The answer to all these questions lies in one word : Respect.
One cannot stress on just how important respect is for women.A crude analogy of this can be put into sentences like :Respect is to women what looks are to men.If she doesnt respect you she wouldnt find you attractive enough.So you do see how much importance is given to it by women.So,to make a long-lasting,good first impression,is just to make sure that they see you as someone that they can admire and lust after.These type of men are not to be taken easily.They are not easily intimidated nor are they easily flustered.They dont let extreme good looks of a women get to their head.They treat beautiful women just as they would treat their friends.They dont go out of their way to make beautiful women feel special.
So...you think you can do it....there isnt much to it...after all your friends respect you,your profs respect you and it wouldnt be all that hard to illicit respect from women.But that is where the problem arises.Boy meets women and goes gaga over her looks.He may feel intimidated by her beauty.They become a bit more passive,get flustered,talk in high-pitched voices,which is as bad as being tongue-tied....and presto,you are now relegated to the "loser" category in her mind.So how does one treat a beautiful women like she wasn't one?It isnt all that hard...its more about tricking your mind that anything else.I read somewhere that this technique is being used by corporate executives to net in big clients as well as individuals who want to leapfrog the social scene.Imagine in your mind that the women you are about to meet is a long-lost friend of yours whom you havent seen in ages.Someone whom you have been trying to contact but havent been able to do so with much success.Seeing them again would delight you,right?You wouldnt be nervous.You would not treat them like they were above you or feel intimidated by her and you most definately would not be tongue-tied.To the contrary,your eyes would sprakle everytime you talk to her.You would seem energetic and outgoing.You would be able to make her smile just like in "old" times.So the next time you are about to meet a women,think of her as an "old pal" of yours. Using this little technique you can "trick" your mind so that you feel and, more importantly, act completely relaxed so that you will leave a great first impression that will, hopefully, stick around for "10 years".
Paranoid.
...so make the most of it.You know how people say that a first impression takes only a few seconds to make but years to change.And most of it is true.However when people refer to first impressions,it usually is a negative reference that they fall back to.As if to say "you better make one hell of a first impression or else you have very little chance of getting a women to like you".All this may be true....
...but there are two sides to every coin.So first impressions also work in a positive way.Just like it takes a huge effort on your part to change a first bad impression,it would take a lot of screw-ups on your part to change a good first impression.As long as you have made a postive impression on a lady you have just met,you indeed can get away with a few muck-ups later on.But this would work for you,only and only if, you knew how to MAKE good first impressions.So therein lies the question....how does one leave a first good impression on ladies that you may potentially start dating later on?How to avoid being cast into the "loser" category only after just meeting her?How to project yourself as some kind of an exceptionally attractive and dateable man? The answer to all these questions lies in one word : Respect.
One cannot stress on just how important respect is for women.A crude analogy of this can be put into sentences like :Respect is to women what looks are to men.If she doesnt respect you she wouldnt find you attractive enough.So you do see how much importance is given to it by women.So,to make a long-lasting,good first impression,is just to make sure that they see you as someone that they can admire and lust after.These type of men are not to be taken easily.They are not easily intimidated nor are they easily flustered.They dont let extreme good looks of a women get to their head.They treat beautiful women just as they would treat their friends.They dont go out of their way to make beautiful women feel special.
So...you think you can do it....there isnt much to it...after all your friends respect you,your profs respect you and it wouldnt be all that hard to illicit respect from women.But that is where the problem arises.Boy meets women and goes gaga over her looks.He may feel intimidated by her beauty.They become a bit more passive,get flustered,talk in high-pitched voices,which is as bad as being tongue-tied....and presto,you are now relegated to the "loser" category in her mind.So how does one treat a beautiful women like she wasn't one?It isnt all that hard...its more about tricking your mind that anything else.I read somewhere that this technique is being used by corporate executives to net in big clients as well as individuals who want to leapfrog the social scene.Imagine in your mind that the women you are about to meet is a long-lost friend of yours whom you havent seen in ages.Someone whom you have been trying to contact but havent been able to do so with much success.Seeing them again would delight you,right?You wouldnt be nervous.You would not treat them like they were above you or feel intimidated by her and you most definately would not be tongue-tied.To the contrary,your eyes would sprakle everytime you talk to her.You would seem energetic and outgoing.You would be able to make her smile just like in "old" times.So the next time you are about to meet a women,think of her as an "old pal" of yours. Using this little technique you can "trick" your mind so that you feel and, more importantly, act completely relaxed so that you will leave a great first impression that will, hopefully, stick around for "10 years".
Paranoid.
