"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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first impression

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I am in a health class in highschool and we did a little excercise. We were doing mental health so we did a first impression activity.

Everyone writes their name on a piece of paper. We are sitting in a circle so we pass the paper to our right. So now we have someone elses paper and we write the first impression they gave to us. so for example amy is sitting to my left. she passes her paper to me and i write "cute smart" or whatever. then we pass again and so forth.

Now my health teacher taught me that first impressions do last. So we should know what we are giving off when people first see us. I recieved my paper and I recieved 12 remarks that said my first impression was shy and quiet. My class has about 20 people and the vast majority said I was shy. This upset me but now I know and I want to change that.

Now that I know what the first impression I give off is, I can improve myself so that my first impression will be something good like "confidant, energetic."
That is the reason I made this post. This excercise was good to me so maybe it'll be the same for others.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LMAOOOOO..I just did that too. I got stuff like nice sweet boy and nice guy blahhhhh which isnt that bad. And cool hair lol. Don't fret over it, just keep doing what your doing trying to move foward.
 
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