"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am in a health class in highschool and we did a little excercise. We were doing mental health so we did a first impression activity.

Everyone writes their name on a piece of paper. We are sitting in a circle so we pass the paper to our right. So now we have someone elses paper and we write the first impression they gave to us. so for example amy is sitting to my left. she passes her paper to me and i write "cute smart" or whatever. then we pass again and so forth.

Now my health teacher taught me that first impressions do last. So we should know what we are giving off when people first see us. I recieved my paper and I recieved 12 remarks that said my first impression was shy and quiet. My class has about 20 people and the vast majority said I was shy. This upset me but now I know and I want to change that.

Now that I know what the first impression I give off is, I can improve myself so that my first impression will be something good like "confidant, energetic."
That is the reason I made this post. This excercise was good to me so maybe it'll be the same for others.
 

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LMAOOOOO..I just did that too. I got stuff like nice sweet boy and nice guy blahhhhh which isnt that bad. And cool hair lol. Don't fret over it, just keep doing what your doing trying to move foward.
 
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