"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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First GF only lasted 3 weeks. --break up note--

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This note really sucked. Does this just mean I was boring? Bad conversationalist? Too AFCish? Bad sex?

2 days before the note she was like really into me and even said her parents were gone today and she wanted me to come over. Now you wake up and your exicted becuase you know your going to get some today but instead get the death letter.

She said she was a hard core romantic and I did not follow along with the baby talk and I also forgot to kiss her goodbye the last time I saw here before this note. This really sucks.......

Translation?


Note ---

" Hey we need to talk. I want to go back to just being friends , I'm sorry. I have my reasons. One is that I see you way too much (We go to the same school and job) and we have nothing to talk about. Another is that I feel that we are just FB (friends with benefits) I don't like you as a guyfriend (ouch). And the last reason is I thought having a boyfriend would make me happy , you do that but I am still broken inside. I'm so sorry , being around x-mas and all. I just want to be friends that all. And still talk but just as freinds.


Sorry ,
Name

PS. I was chicekn to say this to you. Any questions just ask."

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yo, ur fvckin... matt b correct, go to robinson like me? If i'm wrong, disregard this next paragraph.
Would this be Sara? cause if so[I saw u mackin her a while back] damn..if u fvcked her....props man. lol.

Anyways, no. It means that the guy before you wrecked her heart and fvcked her up for the rest of us. She also feels liek you're using her I think, as she said "we're more like FB" and "I don't see you as a guyfriend." but thats my opinion. Work on your acting-like-you-actually-care skills.
Its hard. thats why I don't do the whole bf-gf bit.
NEXT the b!tch.
or get with ehr best friend. you know, spice up the drama. lol.
 
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danmit! I did not want to look wussy and clingy!I like (liked) her a lot too and would of been fine with being a little more caring


Not me , wrong guy.
 
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This relationship changed me. I have completely no interest playing videos games anymore.


I've been almost obsessive with my looks and bodybuilding and amist this change I've become very very irritable and short tempered with my family and friends. Also my emotions are crazy , going from really happy to really depressed or really angry. I'm becoming a lot more confident , agressive and reading sosuave and other informative stuff . Now just bored as hell and waiting for school to start up so I can talk and be around people.I'm being way to danm hard on my self too. This **** is stressfull...........
 
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chicks are a *****. you ned to learn to be independant of them entirely. Girls shouldn't effect other parts f your life, ex: ur moods. Learn to live without chicks, and you'll begin to realize they aren't worth getting all worked up over.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's very difficult. Is there some topics already posted about how to become independant like that?
 
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Originally posted by DDevil
I have completely no interest playing videos games anymore.


Click to expand...
Quiet...
 
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at least she didnt leave you hanging any longer.
these kinds of letters (dear johns) suck .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm just going to forgot her while being kinda nice to her. Not be an ass or anything and not be too nice and caring. Like an aqaintence.
 
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