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I have posted on this forum several times that I had never been with a foreign woman. Until recently, I was only with white women sexually. I’ve started dating a Medical doctor from Puerto Rico. I mentioned she is a doctor, but really it’s irrelevant. My point of this post is that you guys who have said getting away from white women is the ticket, I am here to objectively tell the forum, you are correct. It is so nice to have a feminine woman again. Who doesn’t talk about how independent she is, she just does it. She has already cooked for me more times in three weeks then my past ex-wife did in a whole freaking year. I can also tell you there is nothing better than when you are getting a woman off and she screams in pleasure in a foreign language. I think that’s the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen in my life. A lot of you guys have already experienced it but this was my first time. She said she is happy with me because I lead her. She said she is tired of these simp ass men who can’t make a decision and lead a woman.

I have no idea where this is going to go. I’m just here to say that I don’t know if I can go back to white women after this. I really don’t know if I can.
 

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My first experience with a Latina woman was this escort I saw back on Dec 4, 2014 named Suzy. She was from Columbia and we danced together (she was nude) after like a few minutes after intoducing outsleves. You are right, Spanish women are nice to deal with.
 

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She's Columbian, not Spanish; Spain is a country.

Its the equivalent of calling you English because you ostensibly speak English.

My first experience with a Latina woman was this escort I saw back on Dec 4, 2014 named Suzy. She was from Columbia and we danced together (she was nude) after like a few minutes after intoducing outsleves. You are right, Spanish women are nice to deal with.
 

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Give it time after the honeymoon period lol. I grew up around white women and black American women in Atlanta, the two main demographics. When I first moved to NYC and got exposure to European women, Latinas, and Asian women, I thought I was in some twilight zone. The first few months felt that way. Then, months later, I realized it is the same ordeal.

Then I moved to Miami and realized that Latinas can become 10x worse than white women when they are in the US. Way more mind games, way more demanding, just as "man hating" with their Catholic Self-Righteousness, and seedy as heck. Good example is that dude in Colombia being drugged to death from a girl he met on Tinder.

Overtime, I realized that in most cultures, majority of the women suck and you are just finding the few that don't.
 

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Until recently, I was only with white women sexually. I’ve started dating a Medical doctor from Puerto Rico. I mentioned she is a doctor, but really it’s irrelevant.
As a medical doctor, that can be problematic. In general, I tend to avoid women with advanced degrees. Women with advanced degrees tend to have demanding careers. The combination of an advanced degree + demanding career is a tough combination to deal with in a relationship. The women who tend to have advanced degrees + demanding careers in the USA tend to be White women.

My point of this post is that you guys who have said getting away from white women is the ticket, I am here to objectively tell the forum, you are correct. It is so nice to have a feminine woman again. Who doesn’t talk about how independent she is, she just does it.
In general, getting away from White women can be very beneficial. White, American women are entitled and spoiled in general. A woman in the United States raised in a non-Western foreign country can be considered a better bet. One of the big challenges that men encounter when trying to date foreign women raised in non-Western nations who have emigrated to the USA is their attitudes. Can these originally non-Western women keep their traditional femininity and more pleasant attitudes? There's a mixed record on that. One good example of this is Kornelija Slunjski (Koko Beaute on social media). She grew up in Croatia and has lived in New York City and Miami. Koko Beaute is the best known example of a woman from a more traditional Eastern European nation that comes to the United States and then adopts the worst traits of White, American women.

One thing that helps @logicallefty here is that he's in a smaller sized metro. The women from non-Western nations who end up in big markets like New York City, Miami, Dallas, Los Angeles, etc. end up Westernizing more quickly than a non-Western woman in a smaller to mid-sized market in Middle America.

She has already cooked for me more times in three weeks then my past ex-wife did in a whole freaking year. I can also tell you there is nothing better than when you are getting a woman off and she screams in pleasure in a foreign language. I think that’s the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen in my life. A lot of you guys have already experienced it but this was my first time. She said she is happy with me because I lead her. She said she is tired of these simp ass men who can’t make a decision and lead a woman.

I have no idea where this is going to go. I’m just here to say that I don’t know if I can go back to white women after this. I really don’t know if I can.
This is very good! Happy for you.
 

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They are passionate people. That can be great, as you are experiencing. But when she is mad, look out, as in literally don't turn your back or look away. It's like high school football - keep your head on a swivel and protect yourself at all times. Whatever is handy she will throw at you. I had a stockbroker boss once whose Hispanic girlfriend would occasionally come to the office to scream at him and chase him around throwing things at him.
 
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I used to exclusively date white women and stopped altogether after dating Latinas/Asians
Kudos. It shows that the chad/tyrone/chadrone crosses racial barriers. You meet them from Tinder?
 

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Give it time after the honeymoon period lol. I grew up around white women and black American women in Atlanta, the two main demographics. When I first moved to NYC and got exposure to European women, Latinas, and Asian women, I thought I was in some twilight zone. The first few months felt that way. Then, months later, I realized it is the same ordeal.

Then I moved to Miami and realized that Latinas can become 10x worse than white women when they are in the US. Way more mind games, way more demanding, just as "man hating" with their Catholic Self-Righteousness, and seedy as heck. Good example is that dude in Colombia being drugged to death from a girl he met on Tinder.

Overtime, I realized that in most cultures, majority of the women suck and you are just finding the few that don't.
yeah I agree, women are women at the end of the day. However, I think Latinas have better attitudes than white women overall. White women know they are the top of dating chain and that shows in their behavior & mindset. Plus, no offense, but I can’t deal with bland chicken and Americanized tex mex lol. I think Miami just brings out the worst in people in general regardless of gender and race.
 

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Who doesn’t talk about how independent she is, she just does it. She has already cooked for me more times in three weeks then my past ex-wife did in a whole freaking year.
I found this funny. The "independence" you refer to with these women is exactly the opposite, it's just what they call their defiance. As for true independence they don't have it, clearly evident by their need for a man to do a bunch of stuff for them.

Chances are that this latino woman is legit more independent than the white girls you've been with, not just pretending. Having a woman who doesn't depend on you for every little thing is actually a nice thing if you ask me, but it can be hard to find western women who are independent in the original untwisted sense of the word.

My wife isn't really the independent type though, but she doesn't pretend to be that as many other women do. Independent or dependent, what matters to me is honesty and clarity, I can handle both types as long as they're at least clear about where they stand. I mainly look for a disconnect between what is claimed and what ls observed, actions vs. words, that's where most men seem to fvck up. I wouldn't have minded an independent woman, but she damn well should be honest, communicate clearly and not try to play games.

What to take from this:
You shouldn't be too hung up on the fact that she's different, doesn't spout the same western woman BS about independence and cooks for you. What you should really put your focus on is congruency, honesty and effectiveness of communication.

I know you're no lightweight when it comes to this, but I thought I'd remind you anyways. I really don't want to make another mistake after that last one.
 

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my experience with Latinas is that they are the hardest to make generalizations about. I can’t really find an applicable stereotype that is true. Too variable. Each girl was so different.
 

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My experience with Latin women has not been positive. I find them to be flaky, annoying, creating unnecessary drama and generally being a pain in the ass to deal with. Granted, I’m a walking about Latin women here in Canada. I don’t know what they are like in their natural habitat.
 

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Give it time after the honeymoon period lol. I grew up around white women and black American women in Atlanta, the two main demographics. When I first moved to NYC and got exposure to European women, Latinas, and Asian women, I thought I was in some twilight zone. The first few months felt that way. Then, months later, I realized it is the same ordeal.

Then I moved to Miami and realized that Latinas can become 10x worse than white women when they are in the US. Way more mind games, way more demanding, just as "man hating" with their Catholic Self-Righteousness, and seedy as heck. Good example is that dude in Colombia being drugged to death from a girl he met on Tinder.

Overtime, I realized that in most cultures, majority of the women suck and you are just finding the few that don't.
yeah I agree, women are women at the end of the day. However, I think Latinas have better attitudes than white women overall. White women know they are the top of dating chain and that shows in their behavior & mindset. Plus, no offense, but I can’t deal with bland chicken and Americanized tex mex lol. I think Miami just brings out the worst in people in general regardless of gender and race.
I don't think it is just a Miami thing. What you two have observed in Miami is common in most of the larger USA metropolitan areas. I've seen it in Dallas too.

The best Latina experiences are going to be in Latin America and not in some larger USA city.
 

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Friend of mine fell hard for a Puerto Rican.

Once they were married he couldn't run away fast enough.
 

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They can be a lot of fun but very clingy. Never had much drama, really drama doesn't exist if you don't let it. Frame, frame, frame, and walk.
 

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I like Hispanic women that are immigrants, that is they were brought up in Latin America - girls born here look the part but are the worst of boat cultures.

They’re simply a different breed. The only way you find out quickly, and up front is if you’re a native speaker and it helps a lot if you know the culture well and I mean WELL.

Anyway, most latinas men will encounter in the US were either born here or raised here, all you get is the genetics and the cultural mishmash which is a shame.

And Miami is probably one of the worst places for decent latinas.

Good luck fellas.
 

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They’re all the same. Just different problems.

My buddy’s ex wife was Puerto Rican. Home cooked dinner and blow job marathon every night. Divorced her because that same passion was actually crazy. He eventually thought with her temper that she was going to kill him.
 

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I like Hispanic women that are immigrants, that is they were brought up in Latin America
They have a chance to be decent. They can often end up just like native born USA women over time, especially if they are living in bigger cities.

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about what happens when Eastern European, Latin America, or East Asian women get exposed to Western nations. This is what happens to Hispanic/Latina women raised in a Latin American country who move to the USA.


girls born here look the part but are the worst of boat cultures.

Anyway, most latinas men will encounter in the US were either born here or raised here, all you get is the genetics and the cultural mishmash which is a shame.
I have had some bad experiences with USA born and/or USA raised Latinas while living in some major USA cities.

One experience that stands out is a USA born Latina who placed her bullshiit white collar career over dating me. We went out a couple of times, no sex, some flaking, and some unpleasant texts exchanged.
 

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I’ve never been let down by a foreign born Hispanic woman, not once. Most came over in their 20’s.

Theyre much more humble than caucasian women (Caucasus), and not prone to being gold diggers.

They have a chance to be decent. They can often end up just like native born USA women over time, especially if they are living in bigger cities.

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about what happens when Eastern European, Latin America, or East Asian women get exposed to Western nations. This is what happens to Hispanic/Latina women raised in a Latin American country who move to the USA.




I have had some bad experiences with USA born and/or USA raised Latinas while living in some major USA cities.

One experience that stands out is a USA born Latina who placed her bullshiit white collar career over dating me. We went out a couple of times, no sex, some flaking, and some unpleasant texts exchanged.
 

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I’ve never been let down by a foreign born Hispanic woman, not once. Most came over in their 20’s.

Theyre much more humble than caucasian women (Caucasus), and not prone to being gold diggers.
They have a better than average of being decent options if they grew up in a Latin American country and didn't reach the USA until adulthood.

I'm sure there are Hispanic/Latina equivalents of Croatian born and raised Koko Beaute. Koko Beaute came to the USA as an adult and started acting like an entitled, bougie/yuppie White woman. Koko has lived in NYC and Miami.

Bigger USA cities have the potential to poison foreign born and raised Hispanic women.
 
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