First day, Thoughts?

[Zod]

Today was my first day of school, everything went really well.

I made lots of new friends in my classes, talked to lots of people. Quite possibly one of the better school days.

Anyways, I got 2 # closes, and 1 rejection.

I'd like to focus on the rejection. This girl was a freshman who was in my biology class. Not only was she a freshman, but she was showing very good body language. Eye Contact, Smiling, Leg crossed towards me for the whole class (she chose her spot next to me, she was to my right). Then after class she is walking and I approach her. She was really unresponsive, wasn't very enthused with the whole conversation. I know I was pretty nervous my freshman year myself, but she had one hell of a ***** shield up.

She was walking pretty fast and seemed like she had to get somewhere in a rush. Do you guys think she was just a nervous/tired/anxious freshman that I could probably salvage and number close tommorow or at least within the next following days? Or shall I next her?

I would have figured freshman would be easy targets, might be more to it than that though.

 

[08aisaac]

Well not every body is going to be responsive. lol.

I never next a girl, unless she is real horrible.

Just chat her up a little more, but focus on some other chicks.

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well not every body is going to be responsive. lol.

I never next a girl, unless she is real horrible.

Just chat her up a little more, but focus on some other chicks.

Good point, but ofcourse some people are more or less responsive based on their mood.

I will continue to pursue her, but definently won't focus all my attention on her.

Thanks for the info aisaac.

 

[Inquire]

maybe she just isn't ready.

like she doesn't knowing what she is gettin' herself into so she pushes people away when it comes close to be gettin' close.

 

[Super FLY Guy]

She was probabley just in a bad mood, or it was just that time of the month:cheer:

 

[frisco]

well since shes a fish all she really wants is to be the most popular girl in school so she proly dosent wanna make any friends with guys who might posobly be in that NON popular group of people wait it out a bit then go for the kill

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by frisco
well since shes a fish all she really wants is to be the most popular girl in school so she proly dosent wanna make any friends with guys who might posobly be in that NON popular group of people wait it out a bit then go for the kill

What are you trying to say...

 

[Docs]

Ignore his comment, no girl that gave that kind of intial attention is after just popular guys. She was intially into you, you know damn well she was, the problem lied in where you approached her. Either she wasn't in the mood to talk, or after about 10 seconds of talking about the wrong thing the wrong way she shut you off.

Either way, give it a couple and then try small talk and try to get something established.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Good Job man on the approaches...can u spare some detailes about your approaches that u got the number closes.... id like to hear how and if u did it in class or out of class

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good Job man on the approaches...can u spare some detailes about your approaches that u got the number closes.... id like to hear how and if u did it in class or out of class

I did it out of class, as for the actual conversation, I don't remember what I said exactly.

I have learned 1 thing from this though, walking and picking up girls at the same time is a difficult task.

 

[Zod]

By the way Smooth Player, check your PM's .

 

[TheDogg]

nice job on the pickups. that alone can be difficult sometimes. there is a fine line, however, between a casual pick up guy and a hardcore pick up guy, aka player. players are not respected that much by girls, and i hope that's not the impression that you're conveying to these honeys. if, for example, this girl saw you approach the others that you talked to, she would naturally feel inclined to brush you off.
also, many freshman girls get the talks from their mommies about watching themselves around older guys (which is understandable, because my first instinct when i see a hot freshman is to man-handle her and bone her hard).

well anyway, what year are you? i'm a senior, so froshies are just about off limits.

but i would be happy to hear some of your methods on the pickups, because i have a situation i have to take care myself.


-take it easy and keep it real

 

[Smooth Player 056]

bump

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by TheDogg
nice job on the pickups. that alone can be difficult sometimes. there is a fine line, however, between a casual pick up guy and a hardcore pick up guy, aka player. players are not respected that much by girls, and i hope that's not the impression that you're conveying to these honeys. if, for example, this girl saw you approach the others that you talked to, she would naturally feel inclined to brush you off.
also, many freshman girls get the talks from their mommies about watching themselves around older guys (which is understandable, because my first instinct when i see a hot freshman is to man-handle her and bone her hard).

well anyway, what year are you? i'm a senior, so froshies are just about off limits.

but i would be happy to hear some of your methods on the pickups, because i have a situation i have to take care myself.

-take it easy and keep it real

I am a Junior in High School right now.

And Smooth Player did you get my PM?