"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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original_prankster

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on our first date today, i used the don juan's kiss-test today, and i went in close to my girl, when my face came close to hers she turned it away from mine.i know that she does like me because she broke up with her old boyfriend to date me. how long dya think it'll be till she'll let me kiss her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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Dude, you're thinking too much. She just put up a little LMR, or she's not ready. If you can get a second date, and work your way through it, then you'll get what you want. There's no set "Kiss Kountdown" for a girl. Just remember all of your DJ mantras and go at it.

-Damian
 

TheGotDamnHNiC

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she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
 

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Originally posted by TheGotDamnHNiC
she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
That is NOT true. She could very well like him and just didn't want to kiss on the first date (i know thats old school but w/e) or she just ddin't feel that the mood was right. There are A LOT of cicumstances of why she didn't want to kiss and although her not liking him is 100% 1 of those options, it seems (in the story he described to us) that she does like him as she broke up with her BF just to go out with him.
 
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