"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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on our first date today, i used the don juan's kiss-test today, and i went in close to my girl, when my face came close to hers she turned it away from mine.i know that she does like me because she broke up with her old boyfriend to date me. how long dya think it'll be till she'll let me kiss her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, you're thinking too much. She just put up a little LMR, or she's not ready. If you can get a second date, and work your way through it, then you'll get what you want. There's no set "Kiss Kountdown" for a girl. Just remember all of your DJ mantras and go at it.

-Damian
 
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she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
 
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Originally posted by TheGotDamnHNiC
she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
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That is NOT true. She could very well like him and just didn't want to kiss on the first date (i know thats old school but w/e) or she just ddin't feel that the mood was right. There are A LOT of cicumstances of why she didn't want to kiss and although her not liking him is 100% 1 of those options, it seems (in the story he described to us) that she does like him as she broke up with her BF just to go out with him.
 
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