"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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on our first date today, i used the don juan's kiss-test today, and i went in close to my girl, when my face came close to hers she turned it away from mine.i know that she does like me because she broke up with her old boyfriend to date me. how long dya think it'll be till she'll let me kiss her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, you're thinking too much. She just put up a little LMR, or she's not ready. If you can get a second date, and work your way through it, then you'll get what you want. There's no set "Kiss Kountdown" for a girl. Just remember all of your DJ mantras and go at it.

-Damian
 
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she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
 
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Originally posted by TheGotDamnHNiC
she dont liek you...if she did she would have kissed you. and you should have realized by now that if she broke up with her boyfriend for you, then she should be hitting the ass right now...why would she break up with him to date you? lol..shes just using you...you sound like a symp...
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That is NOT true. She could very well like him and just didn't want to kiss on the first date (i know thats old school but w/e) or she just ddin't feel that the mood was right. There are A LOT of cicumstances of why she didn't want to kiss and although her not liking him is 100% 1 of those options, it seems (in the story he described to us) that she does like him as she broke up with her BF just to go out with him.
 
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