This chick I like we went to the movies with her, her friend and me. was kinda weird cause I barely talked. but during the movie we held hands and I had my hand rest on her lap and she was like petting my arm the whole time. she was running her fingers thru her hair alot of the movie too. Can somebody translate her actions?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LearningSlowly
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Shoulda kissed her.
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You will ALWAYS miss the right moment, cause it doesnt exist! You just have to make it happen.JBozz said:Was going to missed the right moment.
As for your post, she likes you, take action.
Was pretty nervous and yeah.NorwegianDJ said:You will ALWAYS miss the right moment, cause it doesnt exist! You just have to make it happen.
As for your post, she likes you, take action.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Stop analyzing so much. It's a good sign. Take everything as a good sign.JBozz said:Today i was talking to her and she said she felt drunk when i was touching her. Wtf does that mean? shes horny?