"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First Date

JBozz

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This chick I like we went to the movies with her, her friend and me. was kinda weird cause I barely talked. but during the movie we held hands and I had my hand rest on her lap and she was like petting my arm the whole time. she was running her fingers thru her hair alot of the movie too. Can somebody translate her actions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JBozz said:
Was going to missed the right moment.
You will ALWAYS miss the right moment, cause it doesnt exist! You just have to make it happen.

As for your post, she likes you, take action.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
You will ALWAYS miss the right moment, cause it doesnt exist! You just have to make it happen.

As for your post, she likes you, take action.
Was pretty nervous and yeah.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Today i was talking to her and she said she felt drunk when i was touching her. Wtf does that mean? shes horny?
 

NorwegianDJ

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JBozz said:
Today i was talking to her and she said she felt drunk when i was touching her. Wtf does that mean? shes horny?
Stop analyzing so much. It's a good sign. Take everything as a good sign.
 
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