"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First Date...

sandman6991

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I met this girl (Brittany) at the pool Thursday, talked to her a little in the group she was in, because I know one of her friends. I went back to the pool today, and again, didn't talk to her much at all, just got her name, introuduced myself, and said I had to get going, but I'd text her. I got her number in literally 15 seconds, because I actually did have to go. One of my other friends (Rachel) is friends with her, and it turns out Brittany texted Rachel and told her about me...and Rachel thinks Brittany's interested and I should get to know her better.

Screw that, I'm going to probably text her tomorrow and set up a date for this week. I've had a few ideas, but need input on what's the best thing to do now...

First...should it be a single, one-on-one date, or a group date with another couple?

Here are some date ideas I've had:
Putt-Putt and eat
Picnic at the park
drive-in movies and eat
outdoor concert festival thing, it's free and pretty popular with some big name artists (it would require like a 20 min. drive though)

Ideas? Help would be appreciated...I'd hate to make progress with this chick and screw it up so soon!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sandman6991

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Tomorrow may be too soon to spring for a date...but I'd almost rather be too agressive than to not make a move
 

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I'd CALL her and forget the text messaging.

I say go play putt putt, shoot pool, bowl or do something with action involved AND then get something to eat.........movies and concerts in my experience have not been the best places to go on first dates, you can't talk and interact with the girl near as much in those circumstances
 

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sandman6991 said:
I met this girl (Brittany) at the pool Thursday, talked to her a little in the group she was in, because I know one of her friends. I went back to the pool today, and again, didn't talk to her much at all, just got her name, introuduced myself, and said I had to get going, but I'd text her. I got her number in literally 15 seconds, because I actually did have to go. One of my other friends (Rachel) is friends with her, and it turns out Brittany texted Rachel and told her about me...and Rachel thinks Brittany's interested and I should get to know her better.

Screw that, I'm going to probably text her tomorrow and set up a date for this week. I've had a few ideas, but need input on what's the best thing to do now...

First...should it be a single, one-on-one date, or a group date with another couple?

Here are some date ideas I've had:
Putt-Putt and eat
Picnic at the park
drive-in movies and eat
outdoor concert festival thing, it's free and pretty popular with some big name artists (it would require like a 20 min. drive though)

Ideas? Help would be appreciated...I'd hate to make progress with this chick and screw it up so soon!
Whoa dude. First: the date should be ONE on ONE. I never understand guys who want a group date or another couple. Why would you risk having another guy there who she can fall in love with? You don't want her to be distracted in anyway whatsoever with any other couple or gorup. It should be ONE on ONE by yourselves, and not a 10 hour date either.

Why is Rachel telling you to text Brittany? Why is it any of Rachel's business? She could have told everything she knows about you to Brittany and she won't go on a date with you since she knows everything. Tell Rachel its none of her business.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In my opinion i think they all sound like good ideas, but not sure about drive through, depending on if ur doing something other than watching the movie.
 
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