"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey guys my friend for a couple of years is coming over and i know that she likes me. shes gona come over to my house and i was planning to play some video games for a lil bit then ill tell her to go to park with me. but the problem is theres nothing to do at the park but i was just planning to let her borrow my bike so we can bike there.
my problem is i duno what to do at the park because theres a lake and theres some ducks i think so maybe we can feed those. any suggestions?? btw theres no carnival or play or anything here. and no bowling either. and i dont really wana go to a movie. so do u guys think going to the park is ok? maybe well just chill there and talk
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So your plan is to play video games and then have her ride your bike (literally)?
 
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yeah because we started off as friends and shes my sisters best friend. we havent seen each other for a while but we chilled like 1 month ago and my sister said that she likes me and i was starting to like her too. we talk on aim and stuff but yeah.
lol i dont really know what to do when she gets here and from reading these stuff i thoguht i should be more assertive and tell her shes going to the park with me. and maybe we can get some starbucks or something. do u guys think i should do that??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well i would do the movie idea but the problem is i have 2 younger brothers that stay home all day. and i live in a small apartment so i dont really wana stay in here long. um we both like athletic stuff and we like math(lol) umm i duno what else but shes a pretty fun person so i dont think she would totally dislike me if i did something different
 
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taking her to park is more ideal. Not neccessary to the park; you can simply say "hey, lets go for a walk around the neighbourhood." I she no reason why she'd refuse that proposal...
 
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Jokingly challange her to a basketball game or something and go to the park and play horse. I did that with a girl one time and it was a great time, as long as you don't get competitive and keep it light with some goofy trash talking and crazy shots. After you guys do some athletic, since you said you both like it, then you can go for a walk or do something else where you can keno and talk and escalate.
 
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duckbutt said:
hey guys my friend for a couple of years is coming over and i know that she likes me. shes gona come over to my house and i was planning to play some video games for a lil bit then ill tell her to go to park with me. but the problem is theres nothing to do at the park but i was just planning to let her borrow my bike so we can bike there.
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dude, if she isn't game i know i am. :yes:
 
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duckbutt said:
...we started off as friends and shes my sisters best friend.
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From experience, I'd say getting with your sister's bestfriend would be the worst thing to do. Especially if you screw her (the bestfriend) over, your sister would not take it very lightly...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah but i duno my sister is all for it she was even joking with me that she wants anna(her best friend) to be her sister in law haha. o and shes my step sister btw.
shes gonna be here for like the whole day so do u guys have any suggestion on what to do?? im open for anything because i duno how to entertain a girl for like 5 hours haha.
 
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From experience, video games arent all that bad of an idea, at least for a little while. Just dont pick like Halo or something haha. When i have girls over i tell them i can kick their butt in Dance Dance Revolution, and usually girls are half decent at this game, so it turns into a competition and its fun too. :up:
 
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WOW my step sister said she will come too so shes gonna hang out with us!! now it might be like a get together thing where me, my brothers, stepsister, and her friend go out together!! wow...... what am i supposed to do now there goes my whole plan
 
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WOW my step sister said she will come too so shes gonna hang out with us!! now it might be like a get together thing where me, my brothers, stepsister, and her friend go out together!! wow...... what am i supposed to do now there goes my whole plan
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c'mon dude invite me. s***, how would one more person hurt?? i will bring some roses for the girls and some chocolate for you dudes. let me lead the way :woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha come on over! since i cant do anything about her tomorow cept maybe for some light convo, lets just have a get together!
 
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