"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chrom3y

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Okay even though I failed the bootcamp twice in 2 weeks lmao I'm not a complete failure. I have been talking to girls over the summer, some not lots. And learning to just walk away when bullsh!t presents itself. I am officially less AFC than I was last year haha.

The Date:

Went bowling with a girl I'd say was about a 7-8. I'm a shy guy but it was easier since she was shy too. Had her laughing and smiling almost the whole night (thank god). She loosened up once I started makin jokes. Got some good kino in too. At first I didn't do any at all, then I thought about SoSuave and how I wanted to escape my AFC ways. I hesitated to touch her at first, then I thought "Fvck it! Man up!". I took her hand and we went to what I wanted to do. Had her on my lap takin pics, stuff like that. I now know that arcade games make for extremely easy kino. And then I suggested pool which she never played before. I thought to myself this couldn't get any easier (the kino). At the end I was close to getting the kiss but her mom showed up (Dammit :mad: ). My fault though since I hesitated to do it earlier.

So overall it went well, I plan to keep her around for whenever she comes home from college, while I get my practice in with the girls in high school. I wanna keep her cause she's a quality chick. Not some dumb broad I just wanna fvck. Things are goin good right now :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good to see that you're improving!

As for keeping her around, theres nothing wrong with that, but just dont make her your only hope of getting ass and dont become too needy/clingy. Keep in mind though that she is in college, so please, please do not try to get into a relationship with her (because I know you mentioned that she wasnt just some dumb broad you wanted to fvck). With all the parties and crazy sh*t going on in college, going out with a girl whos in college is not such a great idea.
 
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Haha yea, I'm well aware of that. My brother even talked to me about that lol. So I'm not trying to get too close to her. Just keepin her there for her visits home.
 
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Chrom3y said:
Haha yea, I'm well aware of that. My brother even talked to me about that lol. So I'm not trying to get too close to her. Just keepin her there for her visits home.
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I know you said you didnt want her to just be some dumb broad to just fvck, but saying this makes it seem exactly like just a booty call for when she comes home you can just fvck her.

Just dont get emotionally attached.
 
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